If your parents rely on you, don’t play the same game with those who depend on their parents. You have to understand that life isn’t fair, it has never been and will never be. Against what you wish, this is the reality. Life doesn’t treat everyone the same, and the sooner you understand that, the better you can handle things as they are.
Some people are born with silver spoons, and others are born with a scar. Some people are born into privilege and opportunity, while others face relentless hardship through no fault of their own. So, don’t gamble with your future trying to keep up with people playing a different game. If you play stupid games, you will win stupid prizes.